Lady Cady

Faith * Family * Life

Life

The Great Room

Some people call it a living room. Some a sitting room. Maybe it’s a family room to you and yours. Or maybe, like at our house, it’s called a great room. Whatever you call it, it’s a wonderful place to gather with those you love and create priceless memories. ❤

This may look just like a living room –
At least that’s what most people would assume.
But hidden just beneath all that
This rug doubles as a wrestling mat.
This couch a long, blue trampoline.
These chairs must contain some jumping beans.
They also double as a throne –
We forgive you if you haven’t known.
This table may be where books have been
But also doubles as a climbing gym.
Sometimes this table is a road
Where cars are driven and trucks unload.
We spread picnics out across this floor.
The cat naps here, and then naps some more.
On Christmas you may never guess
Just what this room is – it’s such a mess.
Then there’s lazy Friday nights
That just want a break from sibling fights.
So then it becomes a movie spot.
Complete with cookies, nice and hot.
On cold days it’s a warm retreat
Where we dry our clothes and dry our feet.
Some days we try and keep it clean.
Okay, maybe that’s a useless dream.
The dog may claim that it’s all hers –
Also that more pets are what she deserves.
But more important than all these things
Are the memories that this room brings.
A place where we can love and share.
A place where we can love and care.
A place where we can spend our day.
A place where we can laugh and play.
A place where we can sing loud songs.
A place where we can all belong.
A place where love can do its part
And sweet memories fill our tender hearts.
And now that you know, you may all assume
Why we all love this living room.

A Breakup

Do you ever let your old friend Fear hold you back? It’s all good. We all do it at times, (myself included – far more than I wish was the case…) But little by little, I’m learning to work through my fears and be brave. Truth: it’s not as easy as I wish it was, but it is something I am able to do when I put my mind to it. And I know you can too. 🙂

Fear, my old friend, it’s time to say goodbye.
It’s time for me to be brave, it’s time for me to try.
It’s time for me to listen to what my heart is telling me.
It’s time for me to be the person God needs me to be.
Many times, along our way, you’ve kept me safe from harm.
But now I need to be the one to let go of your charm.
I need to do the things you tell me are too hard.
All your silly little warnings – I’m going to disregard.
Because too long you’ve kept me in a place not good for me
And now I want to live my life from a place where I feel free.
You can come and visit me every now and then
But I’ll have to kick you out if you hold be back again.
Sometimes you’re too controlling – yes, I know you think it’s good.
But there’s usually not much danger lurking in my neighborhood.
Fear old friend, I no longer care what others think.
I see Life waiting there and it’s time I took a drink.
So, I’m going to fix my hair up, and dress up nice and neat.
Then I’m going to walk around on my own two little feet.
No longer carry you around – a burden on my back.
No longer listen to the things you seem to think I lack.
No longer listen to you “think that I’m no good”.
Or “Of course you think I won’t – even if I could”.
Because old friend, the truth is simply: “Yes I can!”
I can do hard things no matter where I am.
I am kind and good, with the Savior by my side
And He always has my back, if His teaching I abide.
Old friend, the truth is, you’re being replaced by someone new.
Yes, old friend, Faith knows of all the things that I can do.
Faith is always there for me to help me on my way.
Faith is always there for me at any time of day.
Faith likes to remind me that the Hard Times help me grow.
Faith likes to cheer me on when I get up and I go.
Faith helps me see the good where you only see the bad.
Faith helps me see my blessings, helps me feel content and glad.
And Fear, there are things in life I just can’t do with you.
Things I need to do that you’ll never want me to.
So, Fear old friend, its time now we simply part our ways.
Faith will now be my tag along for the rest of my long days.
So, Fear old friend, it comes the time for us to say goodbye.
For with my new friend Faith now, it’s time for me to fly.

What I’m Meant to Do

Mom Life is hard at times. Some days are harder than others and I have my moments where I question “What was I thinking??!!” But I know that even though there are other things I’d enjoy doing, or be great at, I’m right where I need to be. ❤

Sometimes I think I’ll quit my job –
Go back to work again.
Find some peace and quiet
Away from all the din.
Get paid for all the work I do
And appreciation too.
Wear something that’s not all stained
Or even something new.
Enjoy a simple bit of space
That somehow stays all clean…
And hide out in a corner
Where I simply can’t be seen.
How much could I accomplish
If this was my time spent,
Instead of all the twists and turns
That make my day all bent?

But I would miss the little things.
I would miss the things they do –
The excitement on their little faces
And their hugs and kisses too.
Knowing that it’s me they want
When they need a heart consoled.
Knowing that it’s me they want
To help be brave and bold.
I’d even miss the little smears
And food stains on my jeans.
And the simple little block towers
That always seem to lean.
Those smudgy little faces
That seek me out all day
Will soon be just a memory
As they go up and on their way.
So, I’ll face my days with Bravery –
The good and crazy too.
Because deep in my heart I know
That Mother’s what I’m meant to do.

Invitation

Do you downplay the talent within you? Confession – my husband would probably say that I do just that. 🙂 Little by little I am becoming braver, and I hope you will too. The world needs our voices. The world needs our goodness. Together let’s live boldly so when it’s our time to pass on to the next life, we will be greatly missed.

You are a child of a Heavenly King.
Live up to your greatness to do great, big things.
Don’t fear to live and share your own voice
So, the world will mourn but the Angel’s rejoice
When the Call arrives to beckon you Home
And your loved ones are left feeling alone.
Because within is Greatness so Grand –
If you’ll only embrace it and courageously stand.
Stand for what’s right with kindness and love.
Stand on the side of your Father above.
With Him by your side, you’ll always succeed.
So come bless the world with your word and your deeds.
The darkness around will try to stop you
But with the Spirit to guide – you’ll know what to do.
And each bit of light that your boldness breaks free
Makes the dark in the world vanish and flee.
So yes, we need the Great within you!
The Great that God knows you can do.
So, stop what you’re doing and listen with care.
And stop what you’re doing and do what you dare.
For the world is waiting to hear what you say
And the world is waiting for your talent today.

Big Dreams

Dreams are funny things. Sometimes they just don’t want to let us go. We avoid them and avoid them but still they follow us around whispering in our little ears to let them out. To breathe life into them and make them what they demand to be. Writing is my big dream that follows me around. I’ve just wanted to be a writer from the time I was a little girl, but it seemed so silly, and everyone told me so. So, I did other things that were important, that I needed to do but ignored the whispers. Finally, I decided to listen. I’m so happy I did. Whatever your Big Dream is, trust your heart and trust yourself. God will be there guiding you every step of the way. And the world will be such a better place because you listened.

When a dream weighs heavy upon your heart,
But you’re just not sure where you need to start,
Greet your fear and shake its hand.
Then kindly tell it – you’re in command.
Roll your shoulders and touch your toes –
You know much more than you suppose.
Put on some music if you must
But fill your heart with faith and trust.
Pray to God for His guiding hand.
Then pray that you may understand.
For He’s waiting kindly on your front doorstep
And He wants to guide you step by step.
Then with His help your dream will grow
To something more than you can know.
For He is humble, loving, and kind
And He has what’s best for you in mind.
So, take your dream and take His hand
And let Him help you understand.
Start with a simple thing today
Because simple gets you on your way.
Then day by day as you march along
Your dream will sing a stronger song.
And one day you may wake to find
Your dream has helped your fellow mankind.
And oh, how happy will be that day!
And you’ll be so glad you went on your way.
Trusted God with the dream in your heart
And picked up your courage and made your start.

Mama Life

Once upon a time I was single and had no kids. And then that changed. I got married. Several years later I had my first little boy. Then three more sweet babies followed in their own time and now – here I am. Each day is an adventure. Each day brings messes. But each day also brings new memories and lots of smiles. So, I’m sticking to this Mama Life, even on days I just want to write/paint/read/and eat chocolate. 🙂

One by one they all wake up
And need a little hug.
“I’m hungry mom, I need some food!”
And give a little tug.
Lovingly, I feed each one
And send them on their way.
And then once more we’ve jumped into
Another crazy day.

One by one throughout the day
They need my loving care.
“I have a bonk!” “I need my shoe!”
And I help their troubles, bear.
Patiently, I help each one
And send them on their way.
Once again with a smile
As they go back to their day.

One by one their sleepy now
And it’s time to go to bed.
“I need a hug and one more book!”
Then I kiss their little head.
Lovingly, I tuck them in
Then wish them each Good Night.
For once again we made it though
Another day till night.